Sounds Like I am a Pluralist

The Emergent convention is being held somewhere in the world and it sounds like a whole bunch of people who blog are at it.

I’m not.

But I really appreciated this summary of Brian McClaren’s session on ‘Pluralism Revisited’.

To give you a taste here are a few quotes:

“McLaren says that our story, GOD’s story, is in fact not a metanarrative, but just a big story – mega-narrative…”

“Do we believe that Christianity can account for all the phenomena of life”if so, then we are not pluralists. But if we believe that Christianity can NOT account for all the phenomena of life – welcome to pluralism.”

McLaren quotes David Bosch, who writes: “We cannot point to any other way of salvation than Jesus Christ; at the same time, we cannot set limits to the saving power of God”We appreciate this tension, and do not attempt to resolve it.”what we do is secret movie download

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The Spiritual Discipline of Feeding Children

It seems that spiritual disciplines change and morph at different life stages.

Just as I was really getting into a groove with one pattern of connecting with God we went and had another child, finished at LBC, had long service leave and then planted a church. I was finding that if I was reasonably disciplined I could comfortably set aside the first hour of the morning for a meditation/examen type practice.

It really worked for me and I miss it. That daily practice impacted on who I am signficantly. The fact is it just isn’t going to be possible again real soon.

So… that’s it for me and spiritual disciplines! Until my kids are adults I’ll just ‘pass’ on connecting with God…

Or…

If neccessity is the mother of invention then maybe we can invent different spiritual practices. This week at the start of the week I felt like God was saying ‘when you get up each morning to the kids (usually its me and not Danelle) rather than seeing the feeding and babysitting as a chore, see it as an act of worship. Do it with the kind of heart you would if you were serving me.’

The previous week I had done it every day and felt peeved by it. I realised that I had been hoping to find at least 30 minutes space for prayer and reflection each morning – but it just didn’t happen. I rarely get that space now and I have been annoyed by it.

Fact is not much is going to change!

So this week I approached it a little differently. I can’t say I am a better person for it – but then that’s often the nature of disciplines. What happens is rarely visible on the surface.

It was funny on Thursday morning I woke at 5.45 and thought I would sneak into my study for some quiet time before the kids woke (usually anywhere between 6.00 and 7.00). When I had been there 10 minutes a little face appeared at the door…

‘Can I see a bit of Alfy

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dad?’ (her favourite kids computer site)

It just wasn’t meant to be! I guess what I’ve been contemplating and trying to implement is the idea of developing our spirituality in every day practices. We have all spoken about it, but to do it takes a mental shift.

I’d much rather have my hour each morning, but for now… I will learn.

Enjoying at Last…

Finally I feel like I am enjoying teaching again.

I am really starting to like my students and I think they are feeling much more settled with me too. Its only taken half a year!

My contract is for twelve months and then I need to find work somewhere else. I’m not sure I want to go thru the ‘first six months’ routine all over again…

I am seriously considering exploring ‘personal support’ ala what overseas missionaries do, but there is still a big part of me that likes (and sees it as important) being in a regular job again.

The jury is out on this one for me at present.

Some would say incarnational ministry is only real when we live like ordinary people live, but others would say Jesus is an obvious argument against that!

Chaos

Sometimes this feels like a good word to describe my life.

After 3 days of total relaxation from Friday evening to Monday morning, Tuesday was a complete change of pace with 6 different meetings starting at 8.30 am and finishing at 10.00pm when I went home and crashed.

I know I can’t handle that many face to face meetings in one day, but sometimes, when you only have 3 weekdays to work with, you just gotta do it.

They were all good meetings – people I really enjoy being with – but come the end of the day the introversion meter was maxing out and calling for space. By the time of our team meeting last night I was actually finding it hard to function because I was so tired.

Today I changed gears and went fishing with Mark from 8.30-2.00 – a massive slowdown – then tomorrow and Friday its off to school again – go go go, before Saturday when I look after the kids for the whole day while Danelle runs a scrapbooking class.

Is it just me or does that sound chaotic? Would having no regular rhythm disturb you?

I think this is life for me at present, so I simply need to get over it and get on with it. There are days when I like the random nature of things, but there are also days when I would value a little more predictability.

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Mad Missionaries

While away on the weekend I went to a second hand book shop and picked up a book called the Poisonwood Bible, the story of a southern Baptist missionary family who head out from segregated Georgia to the Belgian Congo in 1959 to take the Gospel to the ‘descendents of Ham’.

Dad is a raving fundy preacher and the story is told thru the eyes of his four daughters and his wife. So far its a great story of how not to do mission…

I also picked up Bonhoeffer’s No Rusty Swords

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Sensational!

Our weekend away was absolutely sensational!

We headed off on Friday arvo with Graeme and Sharron Mason, two close friends and went to a place called Mandurah, where we stayed at Mandurah Quays resort. Verrrry nice… No kids, great food and lots of time sleeping and vegging.

The highlight was on Saturday night when Danelle gave me a present she had been compiling over the last month or so. She is into Creative Memories/Scapbooking (photo albums) so she put together a small photo album with some shots of me from teen years to now and some quotes that kind of capture who I am (or like to think I am!)

As well as the photos there were about 10 letters from friends and family that she had collected, all telling me what a top bloke I am 🙂

On Saturday night I sat while she, Graeme and Sharron read these letters to me. It was a really special night and really affirming for me to hear what my friends and famiy had to say.

I feel very grateful for the people God has brought into my life and for the experiences I have been able to have over 40 years that have shaped who I am today.

I am especially blessed to have such a generous and fun loving wife who took the time to make the weekend so memorable. 5 card stud online

40…

On Monday I turn 40.

It feels like ‘official middle age’. Middle aged sounds so… I dunno, kinda like you have become your parents all of sudden!

We are going away to Mandurah tomorrow for the weekend to ‘celebrate’. It’ll be great – no kids and just two of our closest friends until Monday.

I’ll be sucking up the breathing space as our holidays aren’t until mid July when we’ve booked two weeks in Dunsborough.

So… here I am middle aged…

Lance’s Rant

I discovered this link to my site today and found some really interesting and challenging stuff in this post. In light of the conversations around the place about homosexuality you might find this guy’s perspective well worth a read. Its long, but worth it! You can read the whole conversation here it came from outer space divx movie online

My background…..totally unchurched …zero bible knowledge..and gay…………………………..at age 19..witnessed to by a university student….

I started out in an Anglican church…in Melbourne, Aust..(one highly regarded for being theologically balanced) and later moved cities and into the wilds of Vineyard church (which ended up getting kicked out of Vineyard) and I now..no longer church. Also spent 11 years running a Christian radio newsroom…but left after starting to live a major double life. (Ex-gay recovery was seriously not working). Have spent a couple of years on the sidelines..reflecting on why Christianity and I didn’t mix. I now know I have a borderline personality..which poisons relationships…..but there were definitely some unhealthy church approaches which didn’t help me to assimilate..and I know I’m not the only one.

*There is a major problem with worship leading…whether by the pastor or a specific worship leader. Churchgoers will have reasonable expectations that whatever is said in the sermon should have some merit too…..but there is no scrutiny placed on some of the BS that comes out of the mouths of people leading worship. “If you’re a real Christian …you should be wanting to have a party…all the time”……..or….”we bless you Lord” or “come..Holy Spirit” (this whole concept that God/The Holy Spirit is only in a church building when Christians ask Him to be..and there’s an electric piano playing…arrrghhh).
I’m very much concerned about the link between joyful contemporary worship and Christianity that is being mistakenly reinforced http://backyardmissionary.typepad.com/back…4/la_la_la.html I have been depressed now for more than 5 years and see only gradual improvement in my condition. Does that automatically exclude me from church involvement now? I have though seen worship leading done well. One worship leader just led into the songs with a gentle….’sit or stand as you wish……feel free to go with wherever God leads you’… Because I wasn’t bullied by the worship leader….I started out seated…but stood up and tentatively sang a bit towards the end…But generally now…if I’m visiting a church and the worship starts..I just freeze up. The church-that-got-kicked-out-of-Vineyard church I was in..put ALL it’s eggs into the worship basket. It wanted to be a church known for its worship…(not its love..or not about Jesus). This thinking is spreading really fast in Australian churches. Where is the monitoring and correction of worship leaders? They seem to be an untouchable law unto themselves.

* Don’t get me started on the ‘turn around and shake the hands of five people you don’t know’ thing that pastors get church members to do…as a time-filler between the announcements and the second worship set. This happens EVERYWHERE…..not quite as daggy as the episcopal/anglican ‘Peace be with you” thing..but just as awkward and uncomfortable. My fantasy (when I’m not thinking about Keanu ) is to get a pastor out to lunch…..and in the middle of the restaurant…..get him to turn around and shake hands with five people he doesn’t know. And apart from the total awkwardness of it……(and mindlessness of it)…..I think it actually promotes superficial relating in the church…not the ‘icebreaker’ which I’m told it’s intended to be. I’d just rather someone said ‘hi’ to me..because they wanted to get to know me….rather than some pastor forcing people to do it…..so I know the other person isn’t just being nice to me because the pastor told them to do it. AND…if you’re one of those pastors who ..in the middle of the sermon……gets people to turn to the person next to them..and say ‘you’re the most beautiful person in the world’…then…my other fantasy..is that everyone in the congregation turns to the pastor and says……’pastor ….you’re a total f***wit’

* As soon as I hear the electric piano start tinkling away near the end of the sermon……..I know exactly what’s coming…word for word. “You may be here tonight…and not really know where you stand with God…..you may have been coming here for a while…and not really made that commitment………yada yada yada”
Please find a new way of doing the altar call (IF you HAVE to do the altar call………what’s wrong with just talking with people one by one about where they’re at?) ..that isn’t exactly the same..word for word each week.

* The guilt trip thing. I was working in a Christian radio newsroom….which was linked-in with Australia’s one of Australia’s main commercial radio news networks. We all share stories in the network….so one Easter Sunday..on a slow news day…I wrote up these stories about the real message of Easter. Did an interview with a good Aussie communicator on Jesus (Mal Garvin)….and sent them to the network. They used the stories ‘as is’…..(copy and paste is a wonderful thing) and ran them through the afternoon. I’d estimate about 200,000 to 300,000 people who’d never thought about Christianity in their life..heard the stories on radio that afternoon. It was one of those rare moments of Christian life…where I nailed it..and I knew I nailed it.

I got to church-that-got-kicked-out-of-vineyard that night…..and the pastor was getting up us..because we weren’t doing enough evangelism. I was gobsmacked. Do pastors have to confront congregations about imagined failings every week? Do pastors actually have any idea about what goes on in the lives of the people they’re speaking to? Yes…I know pastors have their inner circle of friends…but do you know what goes on in the outer circle……in the church. Why do pastors automatically sit at the front of the church…even if they have absolutely no involvement in that particular service. I get the very distinct impression some pastors really don’t like hanging around with the congregation. If that is you…get another job.

*Whatever happened to the gospel? Churches seem to operate on this ‘fairness’ principle. Do good things….everything will be ok……good things happen to good people…bad things happen to bad people…….nothing happens to mediocre people…..etc.

The gospel is inherantly unfair. People who did wonderful things in God’s name are banished to hell. Thieves and prostitutes who should be punished get grace and are told they will be in paradise. Peter denies Christ three times (not just dodging mentioning his allegiance to Christ….outright bare-faced lying denial.) and gets the keys to the kingdom. If your church’s Christianity makes sense to people then there is something horribly wrong. As an Australian looking on at the American church..the teaching and thinking more reflects the theology of your Rush Limbaugh than Christ.

I found there are three types of churches……cool and uncaring…….caring and uncool..and uncool and uncaring. Two types of Christian radio (the sector I used to be in) cool and uncaring…uncool and uncaring.

I see the way forward as a ‘cool and caring’ church. It is an extremely difficult balance to get..because one usually cancels out the other……the trick is to be cool…but gentle…(not Xtreme..urgghh…..couldn’t agree more mikeyrey) You have traditional and unhyped church….and contemporary and hyped church. I think what’s emerging (there’s that word again) is a contemporary and unhyped movement out of all the pomo musings…..and that can only be warmly welcomed and long overdue. Haven’t seen any real sign of it in Australia yet…but looking forward to it. Until then…you can take your straight-jacketed (in every sense of the word) Pharisee Clubs and ^$$^*^(^%(&(*_(&)&^$*$ them along with the pharisee theology…particularly as it’s applied to the ‘naughty’ sinners…like me…by the ‘nice’ sinners….(you). Even if that’s not the reality from your perspective…that is very much how it is perceived by us ‘naughty’ sinners…….and if you want to change that perception…….it might be a good idea to put the ‘gospel of unfairness’ (grace for the sinner) back into preaching.

Lance

P.S. Yes ….I still work in radio news…but in a commercial talk station……it’s wonderful being out of the Christian environment…where I can actually express an opinion now.

I reckon that was worth reading!…

Loyalty Rewarded

ellisAfter 20 years with the club, having been a founding member, a captain, assistant coach and having been involved in many ways, the Perth Wildcats have sacked Mike Ellis one year into his three year coaching contract and replaced him with Scott Fisher.

It wasn’t like they had that bad a season, especially given the limited talent Ellis had to work with!

I just think it stinks and Mike Ellis deserves a hell of a lot better.

Reproducibility

One of the core ingredients we hope to build into our church culture is reproducibility. By that I mean not just that we ‘multiply’ / plant other churches, but that we make it very possible to do so.

I have a sense that some of our younger leaders may not be stepping up to the plate to plant churches because it looks like such hard work to lead a church, run a funky Sunday gig and do all that goes with it. When you’re part of a highly succesful large church it would be easy to think ‘there’s no way I could ever do this’.

Tonight we met for church/team meeting and experimented with a very simple process that encapsulated the various elements of what I sense a church should be.

Read on if you’d like to know what happened…

There were three activities for the evening, each to last around 20 minutes (because church should only go for an hour) that had a different focus. We split into three smaller groups and took it in turns to enter each activity.

Meditation / Silence

• Have someone read the passage of scripture aloud, then leave it where it is visible. Take some time to reflect on what God may want to say to you thru it
• If you find it hard to reflect then simply ask what words or phrases resonate with you? What might God want to say thru them
• If you want to pray aloud responsively then do so in the final 5 minutes of the time

2 Cor 4:3-9 {3} And even if our gospel is veiled, it is veiled to those who are perishing. {4} The god of this age has blinded the minds of unbelievers, so that they cannot see the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ, who is the image of God. {5} For we do not preach ourselves, but Jesus Christ as Lord, and ourselves as your servants for Jesus’ sake. {6} For God, who said, “Let light shine out of darkness,” made his light shine in our hearts to give us the light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Christ. {7} But we have this treasure in jars of clay to show that this all-surpassing power is from God and not from us. {8} We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; {9} persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed.

Prayer for One Another

You might want to use these questions to listen to one another.

• What’s going on in your life at the moment?

• Where are you feeling alive?

• Where are you struggling?

Pray for one another

Prayer for our Community

As you walk around the streets share some stories of what God is doing in your relationships with local people and pray for them as you speak of them.

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Pretty simple hey?

As I said, its supposed to be very reproducible, so literally anyone could say ‘hey I can do that!’ or some variation of it. Yet in those three activities there was direct God interaction, worship, life sharing / one anothering, scripture, mission, prayer etc etc.

I’m not at all trying to say this is a great ‘wow’ type of plan, but people often email me and ask, ‘so what do you do?’ Well… there you go!

My reflection on the experiences were that 20 mins at each place was barely enough – 40 would have been better – but then church would have gone for longer than hour and that would have stuffed everything up!

Oh… just realised, we didn’t sing so maybe it wasn’t really church after all?…