Second Home

Amid playful chatter

On a warm autumn day 

We both turn at the same time

And glance to the horizon

The lazy afternoon sun mottles a wave

Glimmering its way toward us

Just us 

No one else close

This one is ours – and ours alone.

Its a bigger one

A bombie (of sorts)

We have had fun chasing the slow winding waves

Across the shallow limestone reef

But this one looks a challenge

Enough to feel a shared adrenalin surge

We both paddle toward it 

And I observe the quiet confidence 

And raw determination in her eyes

I know that look

I have known it since she was a child

Locked in her sights 

She has inside position 

I cease to exist

This is her wave

‘You go’ I shout

(Like there was ever any chance she wouldn’t)

And I watch her swivel

Size up her position in the water

Back now arched

And eyes trained on the blue in front of her

She strokes strongly

And I watch her glide past me

Arms cycling until she feels it gather her

Sheets of white spray 

Cascade back and for a moment

Her figure disappears from view

I watch her body move in time with the ocean

Grace and beauty

I sense her joy

I know she is smiling

Because she always smiles when she is stoked

And as she kicks out 

I am bursting inside

I dad-wave to her

Proud of this girl 

Once was afraid of the ocean

But who now has made it her second home

One thought on “Second Home

  1. I learned recently that the musician Nick Cave has lost two of his sons – one in 2015 and another in 2022.

    The recent Australian Story interview with him was one of the best discussions on grief I have heard, until I watched his interview with Colbert this morning, which I feel so grateful he did. I have linked to both of them below.

    This interview with Colbert reflects deeply on how losing his sons has changed his entire perspective on life: https://youtu.be/G8qmV6MYCF4?feature=shared

    This Australian Story episode includes a reflection on the impact it has had on his wife, which I found really moving: https://youtu.be/wXPIBFfA2Ho?feature=shared

    The website he refers to in both videos can be found here: https://www.theredhandfiles.com/

    His book explores this in more depth too.

    His words have lifted me up today. I hope it does the same for you.

    Take care xx

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